Trauma
photo credit: istockphoto.com The thing about trauma is that stuff you thought you had dealt with, has a way of finding its way back to the surface. The election results yesterday shattered something that had long been buried. I was back in that board room, getting screamed at by one of the marketing guys. The book cover I had designed had missed the mark. I was told later that he was having a bad day and I should cut him some slack. Because obviously, that is what mattered. Not the verbal abuse that I had just endured. I left that meeting. Went back to my office, closed the door, and burst into tears. No one stopped him from unleashing his verbal assault. No one told him to leave the room and not come back until he cooled down. No one told him to apologize. That day I learned, yet again, that women within our society (and especially the Adventist Church) were not valued. It was fine if we wanted to be secretaries or some other low level job. But we were supposed to stay small. Yest